Kids - Mother & Father disputes???

Just reading a friends status and she is having problems with her kids father.

She has been battling court to get full custody of them for 3 years now and she has finally won but now he wants to move to the same city she is living in to be closer to the kids (she is helping him out with this by looking for cheap rentals and any jobs going). I know this doesn't sound wrong but if it were her doing the same thing he would have no part of it and she would be left to be in suffering and heartache alone and in a completely different city.

Is she in the wrong for trying to involve the father in her childrens life? even after he has put her through nothing but emotional and stressful states of mind?

Or is she doing the right thing by her children by giving him a choice to better himself and prove to her and the kids he can be a mature adult and look after his girls?

Mind you he has been brainwashing the eldest girl by stating to her that she has to move and change schools, leave her family and friends behind and this is causing her to retain his attitude toward life, which in my opinion is so very very wrong to state to a child so young.

What are your thought on this matter? Do you have kids? What would you do if you were in her shoes?
How would you resolve this?

Prime Minister..

Just laying here thinking personally our prime minister has just made things worse for our country..

• Families having to work longer hours because she is cutting all government funded money for parents who no longer have young children at home from the age of 6..

• Parents who only have one working person in the family while the other stays at home and looks after the kid/s on minimum wage because the partner "earns to much".

• Young kids who study are currently in study (like myself) and get paid very minimal as apposed to those people who dont work and dont intend to find a job.

How are we supposed to live when all our money goes on fuel, groceries and paying for the ever rising electricity bills?

Why do people coming in from foreign countries get paid a grant to start their new lives here? why dont we get that for staying here and trying to make this place better?

Why did she have to take away the government grant that families and students got once a year to help them out with much need supplies?

Why cant she give out rewards to the people who always bust their asses to help out when needed and ask for nothing in return.

WHY, cant she make this place better? instead of the mess she is causing us at present?

I will never understand why she got voted in and personally, i cant wait for the day she gets voted out... FOR GOOD!!!

My first blog :)

There comes a time in your life when you lay in bed and think of what you want to be or what you think you should be doing with your life. For me it was always a nurse or looking after children (whom i adore) but there was never once a time when i thought i would be writing to millions on people on the internet and telling them how i felt or what i was feeling at the time of a certain life changing event.

People these days seem to take way to much for granted, what happened to the old times when technology used to only exist if you needed a lift or were in trouble? Why are there so many people world wide (including myself) who rely so badly on technology, like mobile phones, internet and television? What happened to the times where playing outside till late at night was actually safe because there were no murderers out hunting people or robbers with guns.

Are we forever trapped in a world where the bad guys rule?
Where they get away with murder and we are the ones who have to suffer?

It's all so wrong and why? Why has it all changed? Is it because a world of crime seems to get people further in life than a world of pain and working 12 hour shifts just to provide a meal for a family?

I just don't understand why nothing is being done when people get robbed or stabbed or taken hostage and are scarred for life, there has to be something that can be done so this all has a dramatic effect put on it? or even stopped completely?

If you had the chance to change the world! Where would you start?